Saturday, March 13, 2010

lying


Here is what B3 thinks a World without lies would be like...



Before thinking about a world without lies, we should explain, what "lie" is . Lie is a noun or action of "not telling somebody the truth.", simply. I think, we lie others because of them - because of their reactions to our real actions.It would be nice if we never do something wrong for others. but it's impossible at least! it's impossible to be perfect or living without mistakes. we're human beings! we hide our weakness (so our mistakes) from the others; may be not to lose them or may be not to hurt them. I mean it make their lifes easier as much as ours.
Everybody knows that lying is a wicked part of humans. we don't have to tell lies. but sometimes we really need it. at that times, lying is the best action we do :) as i said before, lies can reverse those bad stiuations. rescue us and save that moments. afterall we can admit, at the right time, if we want. because lying eats into our minds sometimes. Actually, lying is not good for us but if we need it, we must use it to make life easier.

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I personally think that my life would be easier if there was nothing that we call lie. First of all ı would trust everybody much easily as they would not be able to hide their true identities. So ı would have much closer relationships and this would give me more energy and support in my social life. And other than my personal life and close relationships, the lack of lie in our lives would make social life easier. There would be less deception and fraud so people would live in a more harmonious way.
However, lying sometimes can protect some social relationships. We call these lies as "white lies". For instance, ıf we do not like a person but we have to be in touch for some reason we can pretend to like him/her. This action usually includes lying too.we do not say "ı do not like you and do not want to see you in fact".
Considering all these facts, ı again prefer a life without lies and think that it is better to be honest and live in a honest society than live an easier life.

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If we could never tell a lie,we had less fear and worry,because while general of us are telling lie,we avoid eye contact or seem too worried.telling lie can make our life easy or make difficult.sometimes we have to give difficult decisions and we can prefer telling lie, in that time,telling lie is very logical for us.for instance you have a child who is very sick, will actually die.you hate telling lie to your child, but you have to do this.because your child wants to live,go to school,grow up...so sometimes telling the truth isn't necessary.on the other hand the person who is selfish can't tell the truth and sometimes he/she can change the another person's life or plan,negatively.for instance anIf one of the couple who love each other tell lie to other,(the partner)other doesn't want to care her/his darling and finally this situation hurt their realitionship.because they can not trust each other.so telling lie is not correct/wrong.

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The worst thing in life is a lie.Liar people think suppose to deceive other people but firstly they deceive theirselves.I hate lie especially in bilateral relations and friendship relations.You tell a lie one time that shake your reliability.People dont trust to you before.You're telling the truth if they think they are lying.Some situation lie will be inevitably sometimes.To tell a lie makes it easier to become world.We do something easier or ewerybody have secret and dont want to say our secret some lies about that.We called pink lie.These will not hurt the lives.We dont very angry when we learn.We say we do not want one more.But may opposite of the this situtaion.Sometimes they cause of the serious problems.Many people are injured.Nowadays everyone says lie to each other.Everyone is moving in the direction of interest.This situation makes it difficult to live.because it is necessary to rely on someone to live.İn Our life must be a person we can believe our eyes closed.

Finally we dont tell a lie including pink lie.I think we must not give place to lie in our lives even worse end.We must tell the truth.So ı think everything is easier.Everything is more transparent.People will trust each other and we live better

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